It’s not about being bald;
it’s about being bold
By Lauren R. Stanley
14 November 2007
McClatchey-Tribune News
Service
Well, it’s happened again.
Once more, it was time to challenge some folks to do something really hard,
something almost beyond their reach. They weren’t sure they could do it, weren’t
sure they could be bold enough to climb that high.
So,
to add a little encouragement, to push this group of 200-plus people to go
farther than they thought they could, I shaved my head.
Bald.
And I’m still
doing it.
Every day.
For three weeks.
Silly me, I never
took into account the drop in temperatures and how being bald would feel when
it was literally freezing outside. The last time I did this, it was high
summer and I didn’t have to worry about low temperatures, just about extreme
sunburn.
Oh, well.
It’s for a good
cause.
See, there are
these two schools in South Sudan that need help, the Renk Basic School in Renk
and the Hope for Humanity Senior Secondary School in Rumbek. This group I was
addressing – 200 6th
and 7th
graders and their advisers from 24 churches in the Episcopal Diocese of
Virginia – wanted to help. But I wasn’t certain they were being bold enough in
their vision of what their help might look like.
So I challenged
them to go higher and higher. Right up to $30,000, raised in the next three
months. That’s a tall mountain for anyone to climb, but I was convinced they
could do it, if only they had the right encouragement.
To make sure they
understood I wasn’t simply asking them to be bold while I quietly stood in the
background, I shaved my head bald, right in front of them. Then I promised
them that I would only cover up my baldness when I was outside. And I told
them that I would be in church every single Sunday, preaching and teaching,
boldly bald for this good cause.
I know this isn’t
what most priests do. It’s not what most folks do simply to raise money. But
extreme needs call for extreme measures. Bold challenges call for bold
leadership. Challenging the kids to go back into their parishes to raise
$30,000 in three months for two Sudanese schools is both extreme and bold.
The schools in
Sudan are in extreme need. There’s not much of anything in Sudan – not enough
food or clean water or school supplies or even schools themselves. What
schools there are often lack desks, chairs, chalkboards, books, notebooks,
pens or paper. Teachers can be hard to find and harder to pay. It’s not
unusual to see children learning out under the trees, writing their lessons in
the dirt. The Sudanese are so desperate for education that they’ll put up with
almost anything if it means their children will get a chance to learn.
So together,
these 6th
and 7th
graders in Virginia and I are going to do our best to help out. The youth can
only give up to $25 of their own money, which, as I pointed out, amounts to 25
iTunes. The rest they have to get from the folks in their parishes and
communities. How they raise the money is their choice – they can wash cars or
walk dogs or rake leaves or shovel snow or make Super Bowl subs or do hold
dances. They don’t have to do something as crazy as shaving their heads.
That’s my job. I promised them that I would do that for three weeks, taking
photos every day for them to see that I’m keeping my word, that I’m willing to
be as bold as I’ve asked them to be.
People’s
reactions to my baldness have been varied. For those who know me, it’s been
good, clean fun – generally, they burst out laughing when they hear why I’m
doing this. Those who don’t know me usually start out concerned about my
health and end up joining in the laughter.
But this isn’t
about being bald.
It’s about being
bold.
Being bald is
merely a way to encourage these kids, to show them that it’s OK to be a fool
for Christ.
Being bold is
what Jesus calls all of us, young and old alike, to be.
Loving God in a
time when the secular world says God is irrelevant is bold.
Loving your
neighbors in a time when the secular world says don’t trust them is bold.
Raising money for
neighbors you’ve never met who live far away is very bold.
Will these youth
raise the $30,000 in the next three months?
That’s what I
devoutly pray for each day as I lather up my head and shave it, working hard
to avoid nicking my ears.
But it really
doesn’t matter how much they raise.
What matters is
how bold they are willing to be in the attempt.
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(Anyone interested in helping can send a check made out to the Diocese of
Virginia, marked on the memo line “PYM Sudan Schools,” attention Paris Ball, 110
W. Franklin St., Richmond, Va., 23220. The Diocese of Virginia will transfer the
money to Sudan.)
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